I tried to live by those words when it came to me and those I love. See, I'm one of those people that will tell you the truth and sometimes my opinion and in telling you that, I will not sugarcoat a thing. If you're wrong, I will tell you. Sorry. I just recently had a relative hung up on me because I set her straight about her boyfriend and his child's mother. The relative was calling the woman every name in the book....all because the woman wanted the boyfriend to pay child support for the child. The child is now 7. Come the fuck on. How can you get mad at a woman because she wants the father of her child to take care of the child? But you are fine and dandy when he buys you jewelry, purses, etc. So she got mad because I told her stupid ass, it's about that child, not her grown spoiled ass.
I won't hold my tongue for long. Period. Even if I feel something is fishy, I'm telling you. I recently had a spat with a friend who said I was speaking out of emotions. Ok. Even if I was, the truth is the truth, even if it's an emotional rant.
I just want to know where it was stated that if you are a friend or in a relationship/marriage or dealing with a relative all people you love, that you have to be in absolute agreeance (I know technically, that's not a word. Don't judge me dammit!) with them? We should be these people's hand puppets in order to prevent friction. We tell them the truth out of love.
If someone loved this woman, would they let her leave the house with this shit?
As mad as you maybe at me now, the bigger picture is I'm telling you the truth because I love you and I want you to look at your arguments from all elements.
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