
I really don't like posting personal shit but I had to make an exception this time.
So this weekend, me and my BF got together with a few friends for dinner, drinks and conversation like we do every weekend or when we can. A friend of ours that I really hadn't spoken to for a while (and for good reason as you shall read) joined us.He made a statement that got the night started:
"Ride or die chicks don't exist anymore"
As he said this my BF, looked over at me because he knew what was about to happen.
See...this fuckbrain used to be
friends with a friend of ours. Very insightful, intelligent, well aware sista. She is one of very few. So she used to be
friends with this ass.
Friends friend. Here's the thing...after
giving enough milk out for free and other things, she peaced the fuck out.
So when he makes this statement, I said, "Well what about (insert name here)"? He says, "So what about her"? Then I said, "Well, since you are making such loose statements as the one you just made....just think about what the fuck you just said."
As you can guess after I said that, all hell broke loose. He went on and on about how shitty she was to him, etc., etc. Then I kindly reminded him about an incident, one of their last, that me and my BF knew about.
They had just finished the business and went out to eat. Well, while they were out, he started talking about a woman at his job he was diggin' on and then started flirting with a waitress in front of her. So, like any woman fed up, she threw his drink in his lap and left. His defense?
"She wasn't my woman."
Then I had to remind him of what common human courtesy, love and respect is. Did it really matter that the two of you weren't a couple? If you carelessly throw a word around like LOVE to the woman you are fucking and spending 75% of your free time with....you just finished fucking her and you do that shit in front of her? You need bitch slapped in the worst way for being that stupid and oblivious.
By the time I finished my rant, he left. I really didn't care. Later that night, he called my BF and admitted what he did was wrong and finally after all of this time realized that some of the things he did, made her a rip-roaring bitch. I asked my BF, "Will he ever admit that to her?"
His answer: "Probably not."
For men or women to say their isn't any good men or women out there, need to take personal inventory of the people they have slighted.
This woman, his ex-friend, was good to him. Not in the 'monetary, take care of a nigga' sense but in the 'I will be there for you at the drop of a hat, RIDE OR FUCKING DIE' sense. It appalled me that this mofo just erased her from his memory banks due to her reaction to his on-going disrespect (that was the final straw). His tired defense of "She's not my woman" is null and void. Why? Because they crossed the line of friends to lovers. Now if you
STILL don't have a title, fine but don't disrespect the bitch or man that is giving more than they have to....love, time and pussy. Some people don't see it that way until the shoe is on the other foot. By then, it's too late. And really,
when it happens to you, that shit is called Karma.
Sucks but that's how the universe works. It may be worse because your pride made you not humble and unapologetic. You made her turn into a bitch but you can only view events from your angle. Grow up.
I hope my rant has made him look at what he did. They both fucked up but there were things that he did that he KNEW she would never do or say to him. I hope that he grows the fuck up, acknowledges what he did...TO HER and if they can ever get back what got them in each others lives in the first place...he may just have to eat his words. Because RIDE or DIE chicks always come back to the worthy.